[102] Quiz³

[filmnoir]

This is an interesting quiz from lethebasii

The Five Love Languages

My primary love languages are probably
Physical Touch and Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:		10
Quality Time:		10
Words of Affirmation:		6
Acts of Service:		4
Receiving Gifts:		0

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Take the quiz

~avec plaisir~

Comments

[my_daroga]

I got quality time and words. Which is a complete non-surprise.

Didn't the quiz seem heavily concerned with gifts? Is that really a big concern for lots of couples?

[filmnoir6.livejournal.com]

I was wondering that too, L. Mayhap it is more than we realized...

[my_daroga]

I like the thought implicit in gifts. But that includes a piece of paper with a doodle on it, for me. I'm way to finicky about money (such a tightwad) that I hate when anyone spends money on me! If someone takes me out to dinner, I order the cheapest thing. I'm really neurotic about it.

But I like getting something.

[filmnoir6.livejournal.com]

I like getting things sometimes too in relationships but it should not be the driving force IMO. It makes me wonder if our society has valued that more now in relationships.

[my_daroga]

Well, there is that factor that in previous days, I'd most likely be reliant upon someone else's financial well-being for my own. So gifts were more of a survival thing than a show of love/affectionn/appreciation.

There's gotta be a parallel in there somewhere.